Is this a bad attitude with the opposite ?

I noticed that, when a woman is hot, men take a lot of shyt from them. Men seem so desperate for them that they just take shyt, and unfortunately, these hot chicks usually dish out some emotionally mean (not all of them) shyt, cause they know they can get away with it, and they put up a lot of tests. Am I wrong? For instance, I will take it for a while, when I really like a hot chick, but eventually I tell em off, especially if one starts calling me insecure or something; I've had it happen. But I know of guys who would never tell a hot chick off. Sooner or later, with me (not at first, cause I may be infatuated or in love, lust or whatever, but it doesn't take long), I will be like, "Wait the phuck a minute, I'm good looking too and value myself more than this..., and shyt, Phuck You"! That "phuck you" might even be in the form of just saying "goodbye." Is this a bad attitude, or should I be another doormat? How is a man supposed to act?